Thursday, February 9, 2012

One More Moment

Don't take too long to say I love you to the ones you love, cause time has a habit of slipping away - One More Moment, Ronin Riot

Recently I've seen a lot of people feeling upset on Twitter and all, talking about how the one they love doesn't return their feelings...

Wait, have you even told him/her of your feelings?

People aren't mind or heart readers, and most people don't actually know what you're thinking of unless you tell it to them.

You can't expect your "hints" to work, because to you it may be the most obvioussssss sign of your feelings but to that special someone it isn't.

So if you love someone, just muster up all your courage and confess to them of your love.

But obviously, pick a good time!
Not when it's 5am in the morning and he's dead tired and asleep, not when you guys are rushing for an upcoming project deadline or exam, not when s/he's fucking hungry and about to throw a huge tantrum etc.
CONFIRM GET REJECTED.

And this is why those "opportunist" guys who console the girls they like RIGHT AFTER the girl broke up or got rejected are smart!
Cause they know that that's when the girls are most vulnerable and need someone to be there for them.
And chances are that the girls will suddenly realize who's good to them and who's the jerk, and most likely fall for the opportunists.
The girls found someone good, and the guys got the girls of their dreams, win-win!

PERSONALLY, I REALLY HATE GUYS WHO GO LIKE
"EH I JUST BROKE UP WITH HER, YOU TALK TO HER FOR WHAT?"
Excuse me dude? You don't want to love her and cherish her but when someone else wants to, you get all mad and jealous about it? DAFUQ.
That's like intentionally throwing something away and when someone else picks it up you say it belongs to you. U MAD BRO?

So anyway, if you don't confess, you let the chance slip away and let you guys forever remain as friends, you'd be left with all these "what if" questions and you'll LIVE TO REGRET IT even when you have a new boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever
cause people like to find problems for themselves to brood over like that. #truestory

Honestly, what have you got to lose?

If you getting rejected: Cry your eyes out for awhile, you'll be able to use that hatred from rejection to move on easily to someone else better
If you get accepted: Awesome! Isn't this what you've always wanted??? :D
If you keep it to yourself and post emo tweets hoping he'll realise: No baby, he's never going to even know that you liked him at all so you'll only have yourself to blame for being a pussy and not daring to speak up.

I'm sure you've seen those really-gorgeous-girl-with-a-not-so-handsome-guy couples around and wondered to yourself how he even got the girl?
Well, he probably had more initiative than your whiny ass has!

Cause nobody likes to WAIT PATIENTLY for "nature to take its course".
Like why the fuck should that gorgeous girl wait for nature to take its time?
If that gorgeous girl waited for a fucking handsome guy with no god damned initiative at all, she'd have turned into an old wrinkly lady and died all alone by the time he decided to confess to her.

I love this guy, I tell it to him, if he loves me back I'll be the happiest girl in the world, if he doesn't then fuck this shit I can always find someone else better.

And you won't die without someone, you'll only die without oxygen, food and water.
Remember that there will always be someone next even if you get rejected, so what the heck!

YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE, YOU ARE ONLY YOUNG ONCE.
If you're soooo afraid of getting hurt then don't whine and sulk when you have no boyfriends or girlfriends cause you're not willing to risk it for Love.

Valentines' Day is coming! Don't spend it alone thinking "if only he had asked me out"
WHADDAFUCKKKK I swear you will KILL YOURSELF if you find out he's alone as well on Valentines' Day cause he was waiting for ANYONE to ask him out
Or worse.... YOUR BEST FRIEND ASKED HIM OUT FIRST AND HE AGREED CAUSE NO ONE ELSE ASKED.
LOLOL FUCK YOUR LIFE.

And on a side note, I guess some boys probably likes sluts better cause they're not afraid of taking the initiative and they don't feel so insecure of themselves hahaha

Still don't want to be brave and take your chances?
Sure, take your own sweet time. By the time you realize that you should have confessed to him, he'll already have a girl who realized it faster than you in his arms.

Happy Valentines' Day in advance!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi Rachell,

I follow you on Twitter and read your blog. Honestly I don't know why you have haters because personally I think you're a genuine and nice person! If we know each other in real life, I think we would hit it off well! I'm in my mid 20s if u were wondering haha.

Hope you don't take this the wrong way but from your tweets and all you give me the impression that you are insecure about your looks. I honestly think you are pretty!! And you look prettier with more natural looking makeup (like in your korean inspired makeup tutorial). You have little reason to be insecure so be happy ok? :) What matters most is your personality. If a girl is pretty but she has a great personality and a kind heart, it would immediately amplify her good looks! So it's really what is inside that counts, cliche but true.

Hope you will grow out of your insecurity and start to be comfortable in your own skin. You are pretty, don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Being pretty is a bonus, but being healthy and having a nice personality is what gets you far in life!

Take care my dear!